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What do you mean by get together?
I have gone on dates before without actually having a boyfriend/girlfriend thing. If she is having commitment problems, or doesn't want to see guy Y, then just going out on a few dates without the boyfriend/girlfriend thing would probably be for the best. You can test the water and still be able to pull back without hurting her again if you don't want to go through with it. The worst thing you could do is get in a true relationship with her, feel uncomfortable about it, then back down.
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