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Jakeline · 03-12-2003, 12:59 PM

I really appreciate all of your comments. I like the idea of making a site to photoshop pictures of all the people who piss me off.

But seriously, someone mentioned that I seemed okay with the whole asshole ballroom dance instructor guy. Totally true. I guess the problem I have is when people who know me treat me like that. That pisses me off.

What did the sister-in-law say? Basically that I scheduled our wedding before hers to purposefully upstage her, and that my sisters and I are all a bunch of rude bitches. Not in so many words, but that was the gist of it. In the email to my bro, I said that I could not defend any of my sisters' actions, but I personally never purposefully did a thing to harm her. The kicker? She posted this 3 1/2 years after our wedding. This mid-thirties self-professed feminist can't freaking just let it go that my wedding was a full two months before hers. (Oh, and our wedding had a total of 30 people invited and the reception was at a house.. theirs had over 100 people invited and was a HUGE deal.) What makes it worse is that my two sisters don't really like her, and treat her cooly, and I've been the one sister who has been genuinely kind to her.

Stop.. go to my happy place.. midgets and beer.. go to my happy place.

Honesly, after lots of introspection, I really have to ask myself whether people like this are worth wasting my time on. If she was just some random person, I could just cut off contact completely. No matter how much of a whipped little bitch my brother is, I still like hanging out with him, and don't want to have to stop it.

I'd like to just let it go, but it's hard. If it was anyone else, I would give them a piece of my mind. The fact that she felt she needed to write a thesis to defend her point of view shows me that any arguing I do will end up being long and protracted. I'm trying to be the adult here, rise above the situation, and all that bullshit.

But most of all, I don't want to stoop to her level and snit about her someplace she might find.... oops, too late.

03-12-2003, 12:59 PM	#9
Jakeline Disorderly Orderly Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Southern California Posts: 54	I really appreciate all of your comments. I like the idea of making a site to photoshop pictures of all the people who piss me off. But seriously, someone mentioned that I seemed okay with the whole asshole ballroom dance instructor guy. Totally true. I guess the problem I have is when people who know me treat me like that. That pisses me off. What did the sister-in-law say? Basically that I scheduled our wedding before hers to purposefully upstage her, and that my sisters and I are all a bunch of rude bitches. Not in so many words, but that was the gist of it. In the email to my bro, I said that I could not defend any of my sisters' actions, but I personally never purposefully did a thing to harm her. The kicker? She posted this 3 1/2 years after our wedding. This mid-thirties self-professed feminist can't freaking just let it go that my wedding was a full two months before hers. (Oh, and our wedding had a total of 30 people invited and the reception was at a house.. theirs had over 100 people invited and was a HUGE deal.) What makes it worse is that my two sisters don't really like her, and treat her cooly, and I've been the one sister who has been genuinely kind to her. Stop.. go to my happy place.. midgets and beer.. go to my happy place. Honesly, after lots of introspection, I really have to ask myself whether people like this are worth wasting my time on. If she was just some random person, I could just cut off contact completely. No matter how much of a whipped little bitch my brother is, I still like hanging out with him, and don't want to have to stop it. I'd like to just let it go, but it's hard. If it was anyone else, I would give them a piece of my mind. The fact that she felt she needed to write a thesis to defend her point of view shows me that any arguing I do will end up being long and protracted. I'm trying to be the adult here, rise above the situation, and all that bullshit. But most of all, I don't want to stoop to her level and snit about her someplace she might find.... oops, too late.