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warch · 03-13-2003, 06:59 PM

Good advice dave.
A. good job.
B. First she's family. She's got some major shit, confidence issues. Its her. And its hard to feel sorry for someone being so annoying and childish, but she sounds pretty pitiful and hurting. You're the grownup and can take that role, call her on hurting your feelings,and reassure her that your scheduling was never meant to hurt her. calm and constructive. Then its hers to meet you there or not. And then youre done with this one. I'm sure there will be more- sounds like some layers of sister dynamics- Just call them as they come, direct to the source, and be the grownup. Maybe she'll relax and stop the defensive offense.

C. OK now. Assholes in the universe- I'd say not worth your time. Fuck you pal. Once Twice a year is once twice too much.
The troubling part is the friendship with your husband. Tell your husband what a hole he is, what hes said and done and that you dont want the rude asshole around you. If he wants to keep seeing the hole, he can do it on his own. If he doesnt take you seriously, then you've got serious respect issues at home. You deserve more from your partner.

03-13-2003, 06:59 PM	#12
warch lurkin old school Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Minnesota Posts: 2,796	Good advice dave. A. good job. B. First she's family. She's got some major shit, confidence issues. Its her. And its hard to feel sorry for someone being so annoying and childish, but she sounds pretty pitiful and hurting. You're the grownup and can take that role, call her on hurting your feelings,and reassure her that your scheduling was never meant to hurt her. calm and constructive. Then its hers to meet you there or not. And then youre done with this one. I'm sure there will be more- sounds like some layers of sister dynamics- Just call them as they come, direct to the source, and be the grownup. Maybe she'll relax and stop the defensive offense. C. OK now. Assholes in the universe- I'd say not worth your time. Fuck you pal. Once Twice a year is once twice too much. The troubling part is the friendship with your husband. Tell your husband what a hole he is, what hes said and done and that you dont want the rude asshole around you. If he wants to keep seeing the hole, he can do it on his own. If he doesnt take you seriously, then you've got serious respect issues at home. You deserve more from your partner.