Nah...you can still look like that. It takes some time, but it's all about getting the pieces to fit. I'm a little slow, so it took longer...and it also required me going on a 6-year journey 900 miles from home.
I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. I've always tried to be happy, but there were a lot of other emotions pulling me down. Or rather, I let them pull me down. I still have all those other emotions, but I've learned how to better deal with them so that I can be optimally happy.
Sorry if I'm coming across as ridiculous and new-agey.