[Aliantha]

I thought you were talking about someone from the band Hot Chocolate (talk about a politically incorrect band name) when I read the title of the thread.

I'm with you on this one ducksy. When I think of the situations I've been in with 'strange men' I consider myself lucky these days too.

I think rapists are supposed to look ugly and grungy and probably supposed to smell bad too.

If ever there was a stereotype which was wrong it's that.