I don't think 'wrong' and 'right' are particularly useful terms in this situation. If both parties are happy to do it, then who are we to judge? The woman wants a third baby, again, who are we to judge? What about people who've grown up thinking they only want a single child, do we judge them for the emotional cost of having no siblings?
As to the father not being involved, again that's a choice. Plenty of good single parents out there and happy children. As long as there are some male role models around, it doesn't have to be the nuclear family as we understand it.
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