Good points raised by all....thanks.
I have been speaking to her regarding the legalities.
Bit more info for you I guess.....Shes CEO of an accounting firm, with an au pair, so $$ and care arent an issue.
Her ex husband decided he didnt want anything to do with *their* kids when they split up, it was apparently happy families or bust in his eyes.
She decided that as he didnt want to have anything to do with them, she didnt want any of his money.
I dont think
she would be changing the rules down the track....its just the type of person she is.
SG - I really do hear what you are saying.....but I dont see her willingly and with an open mind/heart.....bringing another child into the world to be raised as a single parent child.....any worse off than his/her siblings, who will query about the Father that left and wanted nothing more to do with them. Or the kids in class with gay parents. Especially when you think what society will be like in another 5...10 years.
I mentioned about *purchasing* the sperm, and she was....."sooooo, we screw, I pay him.....hmmm.....he's a whore?"
Oh and Zen....that sounds vaguely like "Queer as Folk":p