[Spectacle]

<<Off comes the mask>>

I was a pick up artist. And I don't see anything wrong with it.

At the ages 18-30 this is where people are dating the most. And the sole reason to date at this age is not for her. Not for him. It's a very selfish reason to date when you are young but very necessary: you are dating for yourself. You need to see what kind of person you'd like to be with and pay bills with and enjoy making dinner for. Essentially, you are learning about yourself. And once you have found your own outlook then you can start trying to match it with a significant other.

So being a pick up artist is a way to do that. A very fun way that will build confidence, social skills and in ways character.
Fresh is not looking to be married; he is not that naive anymore. This route will not only help him completely be over her, but will set himself up to enjoy the rest of his 20s. I feel short term relationships are the only necessary relationships in college. The girls don't judge you on your major, they are there exclusively to have fun as well. Out in the real world the game gets much harder, girls start asking about your salary, where you live, how nice your apartment/car is, what you do for a living.

Live it up fresh, pick up those girls. You will have plenty of time to be the nice guy your personality defaulted you to after you settle into financial comfortability. In my opinion long term relationships can wait until one is truly ready to fuse their lives with another. He clearly wasn't ready with his ex (no one actually should be at age 20 {that's throwing away your life opportunities}), so let him pick up until he's the mature late twenty something year old that we were when we started thinking about families and home ownership and our cholesterol level.