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Originally Posted by Spectacle
Out in the real world the game gets much harder, girls start asking about your salary, where you live, how nice your apartment/car is, what you do for a living. ... In my opinion long term relationships can wait until one is truly ready to fuse their lives with another. He clearly wasn't ready with his ex (no one actually should be at age 20 {that's throwing away your life opportunities}), so let him pick up until he's the mature late twenty something year old that we were when we started thinking about families and home ownership and our cholesterol level.
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I got married at 22 and by that point was more than ready to think about a family and home ownership and
his cholesterol level.
Obviously fresh does not fall into this category and that's totally fine, but not everyone needs a decade out of high school to find themselves. But then again, I also never asked nor cared about his salary, car, etc... further proving my earlier point about what types of people are attracted to which mindset.