Monster, it never hurts to ask questions, and I'm (usually) willing to answer
As for him seeing the baby, I'm working through legal channels to prevent it; he abused her as well as me (although he never abused her sexually). As for base, I would like to be AWAY by virtue of the fact it gets me further from him, but in general, since my job is nearby, I definitely won't mind taking advantage of the government owned, restricted-access beaches!
