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Undertoad · 11-20-2008, 09:10 AM

I get it now I think: I've heard this before: the sub is actually in control. This gives you a measure of control while being out of control.

What I still don't get is why it has to be SO utterly thoroughly dangerous and not just getting tied up and flogged.

11-20-2008, 09:10 AM	#48
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	I get it now I think: I've heard this before: the sub is actually in control. This gives you a measure of control while being out of control. What I still don't get is why it has to be SO utterly thoroughly dangerous and not just getting tied up and flogged.