Yup, in fact I just read every one from this thread. Sounds like she is jealous of her older brother or pissed that he got to move back in and now she doesn't. Did her parents know beforehand that she wanted to? I mean before her brother? It seems that moving back in with them is an issue. That, to me would fall under financial support.
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I am looking for the support that they clearly give my older brother and sister, and do not give me.
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This was not defined though. Leaves the reader to assume.
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He "got away with" wrecking 2 cars by pulling stupid stunts, living with a woman out of wedlock, sleeping around (before he got married), smoking cigarettes, smoking weed (in the house), underage drinking, drinking and driving....
Point is, I've done none of those things, except living with my partner out of wedlock. But the fact that they give them financial support I don't get, shows something is lacking
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Again stressing financial support, yet repeatedly stating that is not what she is referring to.
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Calling them on their birthday, asking them over for Christmas (at least sending them a card) ect ect, those are means of emotional support.
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This is what they are not doing? Well that begs a number of questions - Does she see them on Christmas and/or her birthday? Is this common practice in their family? Do they have the money? Do they consider cards and such a waste? I don't know these people at all or what their lives are like. I'm only basing my opinions on one side and although I feel bad for her that she is not happy, there is just too much information missing for me to draw any useful conclusions at all.
MTP, I am very sorry for your situation. I wish it were different and you could all get what you want/need from each other.