[Aliantha]

I'd say no. I was in a similar situation once.

A boyfriend who treated me badly throughout our relationship in many of the usual ways and who seemed unable to keep a job and who smoked dope constantly and drank every single day of his life on top of that was the culprit.

We broke up, and about 12 months later his sister got married. She invited me to the wedding and it was a big set up right from the start. I had to sit next to him and his father spent the evening telling me how much they all missed me and then later in the evening he (ex) asked me to take him back and that he'd give up the dope and stop drinking and that he now had a steady job.

I thought about it for a while, but in the end, I decided the reasons I had left him for were very valid and that I'd always remember the terrible things that happened during the course of the relationship. It wasn't worth the risk to me considering the new life I'd built for myself without him in it.

I'd recommend thinking about that sort of thing yourself before even thinking about considering calling her.