This is actually a control issue. If she was a TV, you'd leave her on for company, because then you'd be in control: you'd have an off switch.
Thus, if you choose to, you can control your need to control, and there will be no more issue.
My ex used to complain about my snoring. To fix it, she kicked me whenever I woke her up by snoring. Thus satisfying her need to control.
J simply got earplugs.
I love J.
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