Hopefully some of your family and friends that you mentioned pointing this thread out to will be able to give you a helping hand as needed. ::cough::

You are definitely doing the right thing (as usual

) focusing on what can be put off. One of the most important things the Fobblets need is a healthy mom, so t's OK to let things slide occasionally. You aren't being a 'bad' mom/wife/friend/family member. By taking care of yourself, you
are taking care of all of them.
My heart goes out to you, but really I wish there was something more tangable I could do for you.