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Big Sarge · 05-26-2009, 12:58 PM

It is hard for me to "bare my soul". BTW, I am cancer free. The Lupus is fairly stable, but I do have pain. As part of the waiver for deployment, I cannot use schedule II, III, or IV pain medications. I rely on tramadol.

As far as the ex goes, she has destroyed me emotionally. Have I mentioned I uncovered she was utilizing multiple online identities? She was doing cam shows and even meeting other men for sex. She posted her photos on adult web sites. She even posed in my law enforcement raid shirt (clearly marked State Agent) while using my Beretta as a dildo. She was even posing nude while pregnant. I had no clue.

When she left me, she took all of my household goods, my 2007 Pontiac Gran Am (which she traded in to buy a car for her new lover), and $26,900 from our account. I can't do a thing because I had joint accounts and both of our names were on the car title. She even forged 3 checks on my personal account after she left.

She has used my daughter as a way to inflict emotional pain. She is witholding visitation until I agree to give her full legal custody and primary physical custody. Yeah, when hell freezes over. She is using my decreased life expectancy against me. She is using my PTSD also, even though it only manifests itself in obsessive compulsive behavior. The Army ruled I am not a threat to others or myself.

Why does the Army allow me to stay? I have 22 years of experience in a critical MOS. I have a total of 5 deployments (3 combat starting with Desert Storm) and have even served as an instructor in my MOS training mobilizing units. The Army is giving me a rather nice office job on a major airfield, so I won't have to worry about kicking doors, etc. To tell the truth, I'm ready to hang it up, but I can't.

As far as my fitness as a parent goes, I have 3 other children (one bi-racial). I've been a Cub Scout Pack Leader, DARE Officer, GREAT Officer, and was even selected as Man of the Year for one of the largest cities in my state.

I know this is quite a rant, but I hope it better explains the situation. To tell you the truth, it has made me feel better to get this off my chest. BTW, I know some of the things sound incredible, but I am more than willing to email court documents to one of the moderators. I just don't want ya'll thinking I am the bad guy. The only thing I have left at this point is my reputation

05-26-2009, 12:58 PM	#7
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	It is hard for me to "bare my soul". BTW, I am cancer free. The Lupus is fairly stable, but I do have pain. As part of the waiver for deployment, I cannot use schedule II, III, or IV pain medications. I rely on tramadol. As far as the ex goes, she has destroyed me emotionally. Have I mentioned I uncovered she was utilizing multiple online identities? She was doing cam shows and even meeting other men for sex. She posted her photos on adult web sites. She even posed in my law enforcement raid shirt (clearly marked State Agent) while using my Beretta as a dildo. She was even posing nude while pregnant. I had no clue. When she left me, she took all of my household goods, my 2007 Pontiac Gran Am (which she traded in to buy a car for her new lover), and $26,900 from our account. I can't do a thing because I had joint accounts and both of our names were on the car title. She even forged 3 checks on my personal account after she left. She has used my daughter as a way to inflict emotional pain. She is witholding visitation until I agree to give her full legal custody and primary physical custody. Yeah, when hell freezes over. She is using my decreased life expectancy against me. She is using my PTSD also, even though it only manifests itself in obsessive compulsive behavior. The Army ruled I am not a threat to others or myself. Why does the Army allow me to stay? I have 22 years of experience in a critical MOS. I have a total of 5 deployments (3 combat starting with Desert Storm) and have even served as an instructor in my MOS training mobilizing units. The Army is giving me a rather nice office job on a major airfield, so I won't have to worry about kicking doors, etc. To tell the truth, I'm ready to hang it up, but I can't. As far as my fitness as a parent goes, I have 3 other children (one bi-racial). I've been a Cub Scout Pack Leader, DARE Officer, GREAT Officer, and was even selected as Man of the Year for one of the largest cities in my state. I know this is quite a rant, but I hope it better explains the situation. To tell you the truth, it has made me feel better to get this off my chest. BTW, I know some of the things sound incredible, but I am more than willing to email court documents to one of the moderators. I just don't want ya'll thinking I am the bad guy. The only thing I have left at this point is my reputation __________________ Give a man a match, & he'll be warm for 20 seconds. But toss that man a white phosphorus grenade and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.