Let me make it simple. I'm fiscal conservative and I hate you all.
We could probably go off on some all too long argument about what a real conservative or a liberal is, then move into who hates babies and kicks more puppies, then veer into who is more American and compassionate, before winding up at the inevitable "You insensitive bastard my dog died under a falling giraffe saddle on 9/11!".
I would, however, on a somewhat serious note point out that your premise ("why do conservatives always...") is just as ridiculous as UG's anti-liberal rhetoric or Merc's "demoncrats" posts. People are people regardless of creed. Some are compassionate and caring some are heartless assholes. Welcome to humanity.