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Originally posted by warch
The guy was a safety and gave her courage. Now shes got to work without a net. I think, scared as she is to go solo, she will be so much the better, stronger, and in the long run, happier for it.
But UT was the net for so many years. He was home and that's a hard reflex to change. I am sure it is incredibly hard to leave that.
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Sounds about right from the people I have seen breakup.
And having known the two of them (not so much in recent years) it makes sense that they both still care about each other -- maybe I'm a romantic but I believe that people
often fall into a love that they never fall out of even if they do learn that they just can't live with each other anymore.
As someone said earlier, this may be the best that either of them can do and, given the circumstances, it's a hell of a lot better than many people I have seen who literally end up at each others' throats.
Be proud of yourself, UT!