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lumberjim · 11-21-2003, 11:46 PM

IS it butting in?

You two ARE airing your laundry publicly. You have to expect the strongly opinionated members of the cellar to express their strongly opinionated opinions. This COULD have taken place privately, juju....you didn't have to refer to it in a thread (very passive aggressive).

I, for one, would like to see which one of you is big about it first, and admits that he done some wrong, some awful bad wrong in his life, even if the other guy doesn't have the balls to. You must not let pride control you, grasshopper.

You both acted petulantly. Just pissing on each other, and picking fly shit out of pepper. Calling names. guh.... Can't you both look at it through the others eyes?

While the past conflicts have obvious weight upon the emotional aspect of your relationship, Lsyc wasn't really scolding you about anything other than the current thread. It is because of those past incidents that you both wigged out on each other with extremely minimal instigation, and escalated exponentially to the point where the other people in the thread were made uncomfortable enough to try and step in.

Dave, you are absolutley right: it should have never gotten here, and the line Lsyc quoted is right on. However, Dave, you are absolutely wrong about HOW you said it, and if you had only left out the "It's retarded that he came in with "You're pathetic"", this could heal. Do you smell what I'm cookin?

And Juju: You should take your dress off and stop worrying about your feeling so much.

11-21-2003, 11:46 PM	#62
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	BUTTING IN: to dave and juju IS it butting in? You two ARE airing your laundry publicly. You have to expect the strongly opinionated members of the cellar to express their strongly opinionated opinions. This COULD have taken place privately, juju....you didn't have to refer to it in a thread (very passive aggressive). I, for one, would like to see which one of you is big about it first, and admits that he done some wrong, some awful bad wrong in his life, even if the other guy doesn't have the balls to. You must not let pride control you, grasshopper. You both acted petulantly. Just pissing on each other, and picking fly shit out of pepper. Calling names. guh.... Can't you both look at it through the others eyes? While the past conflicts have obvious weight upon the emotional aspect of your relationship, Lsyc wasn't really scolding you about anything other than the current thread. It is because of those past incidents that you both wigged out on each other with extremely minimal instigation, and escalated exponentially to the point where the other people in the thread were made uncomfortable enough to try and step in. Dave, you are absolutley right: it should have never gotten here, and the line Lsyc quoted is right on. However, Dave, you are absolutely wrong about HOW you said it, and if you had only left out the "It's retarded that he came in with "You're pathetic"", this could heal. Do you smell what I'm cookin? And Juju: You should take your dress off and stop worrying about your feeling so much. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan Last edited by lumberjim; 11-22-2003 at 08:32 AM.