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Originally posted by juju
Why should I believe this reason when you don't believe it when it's offered up by gays?
Sorry, I still think heterosexuality is a choice.
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Your putting words in my mouth, Juju, shame on you. I never said I didn't believe them. All I said is I don't believe *all*(go back and read it) queers are predisposed to it.
I work with a woman that's now 63. At 18 she married a great guy that was a few years older, in a semi-arranged Italian marriage. After they were married for a few weeks and hadn't consumated the marriage, he told her he was gay and they divorced. Twisted her head pretty good. She reasoned that if her husband didn't want her she must be a lesbian. So she became a lesbian, worked at it and now she regrets it and feels it was a mistake because it didn't bring her happiness. Now this woman is obviously an exception (I guess?) and pretty screwed up but it is a true case up being coersed or pushed into her sexual choice by events surrounding her life.
I'm convinced that a child can be "formed" to make a choice that isn't what they would do if they'd been left alone.
For me personally (and it seems a preponderance of people) being hetrosexual was not a choice. If you say it was for you, fine. I believe you.
