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Sorry about the typos last night...after that post I only just made it into bed before I fell asleep. long day!
It is tough and like Bruce says being tough on your bio children can be viewed as giving them more attention. I do the same when I'm teaching and my kids are in the group.
What sort of things is she into that's too much like bio mom? Wearing too much make-up -that sort of thing? You do risk alienating her if you seem to automatically shut down/shut her out when she talks about her bio mom or things they do together, but I'm not sure if that's what you're saying is happening?
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