My opinion: It's no good trying to confront the girl. The only thing that will do is reconfirm that she is making your friend nervous/jealous. She isn't really the problem, anyway. The husband is the problem. Sounds like he is pushing his limits with your friend, trying to see how much he can get away with. I would insist that he stop spending time with the girl. Sure he could sneak around and talk to her or see her when he could, but eventually, he will get caught. And the expectation needs to be set with him that if he does continue this "relationship" he's out. But this is just what I would do. If he refuses to agree to those terms, then she is probably better off cutting her losses and leaving him. I know it sounds harsh, but your friend deserves to be the first girl on his mind.
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