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Old 12-17-2003, 01:28 PM   #8
Beestie
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I obviously haven't heard your friend's husband's side (I assure you there are TWO sides to this) but he's not your friend. That isn't intended to suggest that there is any excuse for his flirting.

What I am saying is don't be judge, jury and executioner. Be your friend's friend - be as supportive as you can. She's gonna need it.

And my last bit of advice is to not advise your friend to make a drastic decision - SHE has to take responsibility for whatever choice she makes. Your job, in my opinion, is to help her though whatever decision SHE makes.

She needs validation so heap it on.

Lastly, and off the record, any guy who would flirt on a woman who just had his child ought to be horsewhipped.
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