Those kinds of expectations of support (such as sending him to you for the bail) are bad enough when it's a long term partner. You haven't known each other long enough for him to build up that kind of emotional account.
Nice as it is to be needed, ask yourself: do I want to be responsible for this man? Do I want to be his unheeded rock?
Even if you are falling for him; you are falling for a man who is necessarily going through a transitional stage in his life. That alone screams danger, even without the rest.
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