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OnyxCougar · 12-21-2003, 04:03 PM

I was talking to my husband about this at IHOP, (which is the place we went on our "first date" and therefore holds significance for us).

I described the situation as Sidhe described it here.

He said that the relationship is over any way you slice it. The trust factor, the most important part of any relationship, was gone when he propositioned that friend. Even if he did manage to convince her that he was "only kidding", there will always be that doubt.

But doubts can be overcome.

So then he goes and continues to see this girl, take her out for coffee. My husband says that if your friend's husband cared about her feelings at ALL, he would never put himself into a situation where it could even be suspected that there was anything between them. Meaning, there would be no way in hell that he should be having coffee with this woman. Period. Innocent or not.

Now to find out he won't even read her letter? You gotta be kidding me.

She needs to get her shit together, and soon, and leave this guy.

12-21-2003, 04:03 PM	#3
OnyxCougar Junior Master Dwellar Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Kingdom of Atlantia Posts: 2,979	I was talking to my husband about this at IHOP, (which is the place we went on our "first date" and therefore holds significance for us). I described the situation as Sidhe described it here. He said that the relationship is over any way you slice it. The trust factor, the most important part of any relationship, was gone when he propositioned that friend. Even if he did manage to convince her that he was "only kidding", there will always be that doubt. But doubts can be overcome. So then he goes and continues to see this girl, take her out for coffee. My husband says that if your friend's husband cared about her feelings at ALL, he would never put himself into a situation where it could even be suspected that there was anything between them. Meaning, there would be no way in hell that he should be having coffee with this woman. Period. Innocent or not. Now to find out he won't even read her letter? You gotta be kidding me. She needs to get her shit together, and soon, and leave this guy.