|
Things to consider:
1. Its against the law to have sex with this guy.
2. A 19yo who would date a 14yo is very immature or at least probably intimidated by women his own age - either way, it doesn't bode well for you.
3. If you did date him, sex is out of the question and as soon as he figures out that you won't have sex with him, he's probably as good as gone as soon as he finds someone who will.
4. Its not that 19 is too old for you as much as it is that 14 is too young for him. A light bulb should be going off right now that you have the courage and wisdom to ask whereas he probably doesn't.
A relationship with this guy might seem like nirvanna from the outside but chances are pretty good that you could sustain some pretty severe emotional scars from such a venture. You could wind up pregnant, he could wind up in jail - these things are very possible and you need to ask yourself a) what are the chances that they could happen and b) how much control do you have to make sure that they don't?
Good luck - is there an adult that you can talk to about this? Get some more advice from someone older that you can trust. And don't do anything impulsive - follow your brain and not your heart. That you asked is your brain's way of telling your heart that its probably not a good idea.
__________________
♠ ♥ ♣ ♦
|