Ok I just want to say thanks to everyone who has offered me helpful advice and support (especially you DanaC-- you seem to be the only one who really understood what I was looking for here :/ maybe it's a language barrier issue
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I originally posted here thinking this was a forum used for such matters however I now realise I was wrong. I can see that this site was not what I was looking for so I apologise for posting here. As such, I will probably not post here again as I can tell some of you are offended by my manner and I am offended by some of yours.
Also, to the poster who was suggesting I acted illegally I just want to say that I was not proposing anything remotely sexual, nor was I looking to post pictures publically on this site so I did/do not believe I did anything wrong. Hope I won't get this board into trouble :S
Anyway I apologise for all the confusion and really just want to thank everyone who took the time to help or just chat with me
