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Whether you need a woman depends on how such a relationship ties into the organizing adventure of your life -- the adventure that you always pursue when you have to make a choice.
If you're a heterosexual and the love adventure or the sex adventure or the marriage adventure is your organizing adventure, you need one.
If your organizing adventure is almost anything else (like making money, pursuing a profession, becoming a celebrity, etc.), you have to figure out for yourself where you rank the adventures of your life that necessarily involve a woman and how -- if at all -- you can fit them together with your more important pursuits.
Nobody can do that work for you or give you any specific advice that's worth bothering with, although a good psychotherapist could guide you through the process, if you need help.
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