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JBK, look after yourself before you seek to look after someone else. If your life isn't together, throwing another person into the mix is not going to automagickally result in success or healing.
There's some good advice in the movie 28 Days. Get a plant. If, at the end of a year, the plant is still alive, you can get a pet. If at the end of the second year, both the pet and the plant are still alive, you can start thinking about a relationship.
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