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That askmen.com article was pretty interesting, and funny in places. Kind of like foreplay, I guess.
In talking about communication during foreplay, it mentioned asking your partner, "What are you thinking right now?" or "What would you like me to do?" How do you deal with always getting the same response, when the response is "I'm just thinking about what I can do for you", or "I want you to do whatever you like"?
I don't actually say it, of course, but what generally occurs to me at that point is, Hey, I've been telling you all of my secret fantasies and what turns me on for years, what I like, etc., and getting zero from you - it's like you either don't have any imagination when it comes to sex, or you're embarassed about having one.
She's not a prude, by any means, but when it comes to actually verbalizing her desires and intimate needs, it's like pulling teeth to get two words out of her.
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