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Originally posted by staceyv
wolf, my problems in my relationship have nothing to do with sex! i think it's actually great for arsen that he doesn't have to jump through hoops to get laid. i mean, yeah, there's a place for foreplay, but what's wrong with him saying "i'm horny" and me saying "bang me now"?? our best foreplay is actually when i say no and i won't let him touch me and he has to chase me all over the house and talk me into it. he loves that, seriously...i just don't think it's necassary to make out for 20 minutes, have oral sex for 20 minutes and then get around to it. if it works out that way, sure, that's great, but it's not necessary, that's all i'm saying.
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Sure it's not necessary, but it does tend to bring variety into the mix. Now wait, I see somewhat of a contridiction here. You said that it's great that Arsen doesn't have to jump through hoops to have sex with you...and yet, you play the game of saying no, avoid his touch, and have him chase you around the house and talk you into it. 
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