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that's why i firmly believe in having sex before marriage- to make sure you're compatible in bed and you like it with that person. you have to take a car for a test drive before you buy it!
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I used the test drive analogy with her, but she didn't get it. Her culture wouldn't allow it. And technique isn't the problem. I've got a lot of moves but she is very restrictive to one position. I try to back off a bit so I don't hurt her, but it's like that commercial where the boy asks the owl, "How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop?" and the owl licks it three times and then crunches it. I try to use half of it, but after awhile I can't take it anymore and start drilling for oil.
I've had a similar problem in the past with American girls, but in that case I wasn't "hurting" them so much, but I kept hitting something that would knock loose their period. I've had some girls say they weren't due for their period for another week or two but they started bleeding. I don't know if it's the shape, the length, etc. but it's been a pattern.
I think with my wife it was just that she was slightly nervous, new to sex, and eager to please, so she was tense. I've tried to get her to open up (not just physically) and relax. She just needs some practice and training.
I'm a giver. Even though it might take years of practice, I'm willing to do what it takes to help her train to be the chef in the kitchen and whore in the bedroom I've always wanted.
LOL @ "throw-a-hot-dog-down-a-hallway moment"
That reminds me of my first time having sex. I was 17 and she was 15 but she had been around the block...hell she had been around the town. I swear I almost tripped and fell into it.