Ok, I'm going to say embarrassing things here. Sex is not that important. Affection, cuddling, or simply holding hands can mean so much more. I want someone to be my best friend I can trust with anything. I want someone to accept that "I'm broken" and can't be fixed. I need someone who enjoys a good laugh and loves inside jokes. Looks don't mean that much to me since I'm disfigured and anyone who would love me would be beautiful in my eyes.
For this special woman, I'd do quirky things like surprise gifts. I'd try to pamper her with warm baths, massages, and cooking for her. I'd try to listen and understand her problems. If she has children or grandchildren, I would treat them as my own.
I guess it all comes down to this. I want someone I can be one with
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