Unless you have hot and cold running wallets, you're in the same boat as most people where they spend most of their efforts on food, shelter and reliable transportation,(big 3), for them and theirs.
To maintain all three at a level which affords additional activities, adventures, or hobbies, is getting rarer all the time... and generally limited to people who were established and entrenched before Wall Street killed hope.
These days, in order to have one of the big three comfortably secure, usually means skimping on the other two. But most people end up juggling all three, trying to keep everything in an acceptable balance. You may have to love the one you're with.
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The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.
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