I'm lucky that haven't done many funerals yet, but the thing I have noticed is that there's a lot of people collected together missing the dead person but almost invariably there's an undercurrent of good-spirited bonhomie, people are desperate to have a bit of fun remembering the dead one but nobody dares to be the first to do so (laugh, smile,...) openly and honestly.
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