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I'm on the fence about fetishes. On the one hand, hooray, the internet lets you find people who have similar interests. On the other hand, I think it's foolish to try to build an entire relationship based on nothing but the fact that you both are turned on by feet, or whatever. I think there's no such thing as someone who is 100% compatible, and it's better to find someone you love that you can then trust to explore kinks together. But then again, I don't have any fetishes (preferences, sure, but nothing out of the ordinary) so I can't really imagine the pain of being completely turned on by something that most people find stupid at best, repulsive at worst. If a fetish is that important to you, then I suppose it's a good idea to limit your pool to people who are also into it, as long as you can still objectively evaluate that person and not decide it's true love just because of the feet and nothing else.
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