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Speaking from experience, there are adult female hetero groupies who prefer married men. They figure married men will want to protect their own reputations; therefore, they won't disclose their groupies and everyone's alternative lifestyles will remain discreet. The men won't be labeled adulterers and the women won't be labeled whores.
Two major threats to such groupie relationships are that they will be unintentionally disclosed and that expectations within the inherently temporary relationship will change resulting in deliberate disclosure. Both can set the people involved against each other ... to protect reputations, further agendas, and/or exact revenge ... for life.
I've even seen an adult groupie, who had been others' groupie before and was into it just for the sex, fall in love with the latest married man she was with and want a permanent relationship. When he reminded her the relationship was temporary, she threatened to contact his family and go public to ruin his career. For people like that, the end justifies any means. The same can happen over expectations of fame and fortune. There's no statute of limitations on revenge or the number of people one can piss off to that point.
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