[Catwoman]

I can't comment for other women, but 'oblivious' or 'not in the mood' for me are extremely transient states of mind and can be quickly transformed into 'very interested' or 'most definitely in the mood' by a simple look or touch... of course this depends on the partner - if you have a natural unhindered raw attraction to them you're generally on heat all the time anyway, so doesn't take much. For the more 'long-term' relationships, I agree it's all too easy to be distracted by serial bouts of trash-TV-watching-and-other-avoidance-tactics, but if you know what turns a partner on quickly, a 'red button' if you like, there's no reason why foreplay can't be fast and to the point, with no 'messin' around'.