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*smiles* I remember deleting all the stuff that reminded me of him from my documents *chuckles* I hated the idea I might run into them and it throw me of kilter ...Whatever peace of mind you manage to get for any length of time feels kind of fragile...Amazing how something can feel so raw one year.....and be a matter of memory the next.
Bruce. I know nothing of the details ofthe split. There are couples who are too locked into hurting each other to be friends. and there are those that find they stop hurting each other when they arent trying to co exist in a relationship that is no longer comfortable. What I do think though, is that even the most mutually acceptable split will involve one party at least feeling jilted. The fact that someone you have been lifebuilding with has decided they dont want to be in on that prject any more....even if you agree with them finding out they think that still hurts a lot. Being hurt doesnt preclude friendship though, its just a place to start.
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