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plthijinx · 05-02-2004, 05:05 PM

sorry to hear about this. when my ex and i split the adoption on our boy had only been legal for a month or so and i was PISSED! as bruce said earlier, i felt cheated, used, and beaten like a scalded cat. the divorce was finalized last september and even though i put the $ down on the house and made the payments i still had to refinance to get my ex $18 grand in equity! that pissed me off too. but that's texas law. you can go to the courthouse and file your own divorce. i didn't hire one but she did and that set her back about 5g's. we're now friends, albeit very hard at first but we're friends now. the way i see it you can have it 2 ways. 1. hate the hell out of each other and put your child through that anguish or 2. be friends, or at least be pleasant to one another. i have 15 and a half years of of child support payments so why make it painful.

05-02-2004, 05:05 PM	#8
plthijinx Master Dwellar Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 4,197	sorry to hear about this. when my ex and i split the adoption on our boy had only been legal for a month or so and i was PISSED! as bruce said earlier, i felt cheated, used, and beaten like a scalded cat. the divorce was finalized last september and even though i put the $ down on the house and made the payments i still had to refinance to get my ex $18 grand in equity! that pissed me off too. but that's texas law. you can go to the courthouse and file your own divorce. i didn't hire one but she did and that set her back about 5g's. we're now friends, albeit very hard at first but we're friends now. the way i see it you can have it 2 ways. 1. hate the hell out of each other and put your child through that anguish or 2. be friends, or at least be pleasant to one another. i have 15 and a half years of of child support payments so why make it painful. __________________ For your dreams to come true, you must first have a dream.