I think we're beyond the point where either of us wants to try counseling. I may seek some on my own, for several issues I'm not sure I've worked out. I think we basically want to move on at this point.
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Wisdom comes through looking honestly as you can at what is going on, doing that post-mortem, knowing you'll learn from it and not repeat your mistakes. You'll be a richer person for having experienced this, even though you don't know it now.
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Thanks UT. It means a lot to hear that, and I imagine Case will feel the same when she reads this.
I have a lot of anger over this. Anger she really doesn't deserve. The most frightening thing to me is that I will allow the anger to turn to bitterness, and end up miserable like my father. I really don't want that to happen. But I find it frightening that I didn't even realise anger was creeping in until after the fact.
You guys are a great bunch of people. I am very thankful that Case and I both have the support of such a wonderful community to help us through this. Thank you all.