Big Questions

[Aliantha]

hmmm...lol I see what I did there. Sorry Dana.

[Clodfobble]

Originally Posted by tracey

I have a big question...I just lost my baby sister (34 years old) in a car accident 2 months ago. I don't walk around crying like I think I should be, I feel more like I've had a lobotomy...question, what the hell is wrong with me!? I feel like a heartless freak!

Feeling like a heartless freak means that you are not one, QED.

I, too, am the type of person who doesn't let the awful stuff sink in for at least 3-6 months. It's especially awkward if someone else is sharing the bad news with me, because I just stare blankly at them and cannot for the life of me come up with an appropriate response of any kind. You'll get around to recognizing what happened, when you're ready. No use trying to rush it.

[TheMercenary]

Originally Posted by tracey

I have a big question...I just lost my baby sister (34 years old) in a car accident 2 months ago. I don't walk around crying like I think I should be, I feel more like I've had a lobotomy...question, what the hell is wrong with me!? I feel like a heartless freak!

De-Nile. It will catch up with you sooner or later. 2 months is a really short time to make assessments from Arm Chair Psychologists as to what you are or should be feeling at this point. The only advice I can give is that time makes these things easier, they don't always fix them, bit they get easier to deal with over time. Don't worry about it....

[footfootfoot]

Originally Posted by ZenGum

Good points, Footsie.

Answer to the TGLGBetc question seems to be ... keep walking, you ain't done yet.

Doves? Bah. Cannonballs do not fly. The are ballistic objects which thus describe a parabolic path deformed by deceleration due to wind resistance.

True, true. Not to mention that pesky gravity.

[Gravdigr]

Originally Posted by ZenGum

Doves? Bah. Cannonballs do not fly. The are ballistic objects which thus describe a parabolic path deformed by deceleration due to wind resistance.

You have misjudged the gravity of that situation.

Originally Posted by sexobon

Big Questions + DanaC = BigV?

[BigV]

Originally Posted by Aliantha

hmmm...lol I see what I did there. Sorry Dana.

I'm not! I'm flattered as hell. "Why, yes, I can see how my remarks could have been mistaken for Dana's but that's the price she pays for her fame and eloquence. What? My resume? Leave your damn facts out of this!"

[BigV]

Originally Posted by ZenGum

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Doves? Bah. Cannonballs do not fly. The are ballistic objects which thus describe a parabolic path deformed by deceleration due to wind resistance.

Whaaaatt???? This isn't a parabola!