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We have to go back, Kate!
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Yorkshire
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Aww crap. Bad luck Moar
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Encroaching on your decrees
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland
Posts: 7,016
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Fuck cancer. Friends of mine lose their loved ones to it too often. That is all.
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still says videotape
Join Date: Feb 2001
Posts: 26,813
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fuck cancer
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Thats "Miss Zipper Neck" to you.
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: little town (but not the littlest) in texas
Posts: 2,957
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cancer...fuck it.
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I hear them call the tide
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Perpetual Chaos
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stupid fucky fucking cancer.
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barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy.
Join Date: Nov 2007
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A good friend lost his mother yesterday to cancer. 61 years old. Way too young to go and needlessly suffered for too long. The toll on the family was and still is a terrible burden. I am so sorry for their loss.
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Turns out my CRS is a symptom of TMB.
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Chicago suburbs
Posts: 2,916
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And the bad news just keeps on coming. My uncle Frank - my mother's brother passed away on Wednesday.
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#5259 |
why so serious
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 1,712
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Wow – I haven’t been here in a while. So this sucks monkey balls, the company I’ve been with for 20yrs is closing. We’re a union mechanical contractor and most of our work was government funded contracts. Unfortunately, here in the south the govt. hasn’t had a lot of work going on this past year, well not what we do. Plus, it’s been an uphill battle for the past couple of years, because of a few bad decisions. Anyway, I’m talking with a welding inspection contractor who needs someone to work in their office and we’ve done work with them before so they know me and know the work I’ve done here. Hopefully, I’ll be able to make a smooth switch.
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Gone and done
Join Date: Sep 2001
Posts: 4,808
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Man, Pete.
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#5261 |
polaroid of perfection
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: West Yorkshire
Posts: 24,185
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Compared to other people's sorrows, this is a whine.
I'm posting it to get it off my chest, and in the hope of some wise words. Mum has a group of friends that meet up every month or so. Nothing official - some are still in the Police and therefore the meetings have to fit in with their shifts. But when they can, they host meals for eachother. Mum decided it was her turn, despite misgivings - she is ashmaed of this house and what she has compared to people in a similar income bracket. I don't know if I hear this more because I live with her, or whether she just feels it more as she gets older and more bitter. Anyway. After various conversations about what other people have done and what Mum herself likes, we settled on a tapas evening. Yes - we. I was going to be involved up to the minute the guests arrived. I was completely happy with this - they are a group of friends of about five years standing, I had no intention of muscling in! I had a couple of dishes already sorted - patatas bravas, meatballs, anchovies, dipping sauce and bread, rice, Spanish omelette. I talked Mum out of making a chicken casserole as a dish, because it doesn't work in a tapas menu, but agreed chicken wings would be appropriate. Once numbers were confirmed I was potentially going to look up a white fish recipe (something Mum loves when we eat tapas in a restaurant) and/ or a sardine dish. I'd even been online looking at Spanish tablecloths - second hand eBay of course! - and various things to theme the evening without going overboard. I was even going to dye some eggs (I'm doing some for Easter, so they're on my mind) and use them as mini containers for egg-salad topped with roe. So today I asked Mum if we were going to Thame (a local town) on Tuesday. It's their market day, but we were going to check out the up-market delis and supermarket. It was cancelled before I went away because Grandad was ill. "I'm not doing that" said Mum. What? Now going to Thame? "I'm just doing fajitas" And that was that. I'm hurt, offended and disappointed. When was she going to tell me? Did she not realise I was looking forward to this as a mother & daughter thing and would be taking on 90% of the work? And if she's just going for an easy option (which someone has already done anyway) why doesn't she just order in Chinese? When I am less upset I will say - please do tapas. I will take on all of it, just give me a budget. I will really enjoy it - I so much miss being able to cater and theme. I doubt it will come to anything - when Mum closes a door she double locks it, bolts it and checks the windows too. I am trying not to sulk. The childish part of me thinks, "Sod you, not only will I not help with your fajitas, I'll not help with any dinner you make in the near future - I will cook and wash up after myself and you'll regret cutting me out of your planning in future. I will make you suffer for hurting me." I know that is wrong and stupid. I am fighting that reaction. Help me put this in perspective.
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Encroaching on your decrees
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland
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Perhaps you can go for a brisk walk on your own-io to calm down, and then try what you've said - offer to do to all within her budget? Hugs, dearie!
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Are you knock-kneed?
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Middle Hoosierland
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Pull back, SG. Sounds like you took the reins from you Mum and she thought twice about it and wanted them back. For perspective, detach from what you need/want from this.
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 8,360
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from Amazon? oh, Jinx, why didn't you ask me? nose bones are evil, anyway, and what is the material?
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#5265 |
Come on, cat.
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: general vicinity of Philadelphia area
Posts: 7,013
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Ask you what? No they aren't. Gold.
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