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Cicero · 11-14-2007, 02:00 PM

Holy crap...what's all this chief wench stuff? Who is "she" rattleing people's husbands?

Can I get a quote for the person who even said that?

lookout123 · 11-14-2007, 02:02 PM

Let it lieth all ye sensitive cellarites, so saeth the Lookout.

Cicero · 11-14-2007, 02:12 PM

No, I am actually amused...lost my smilie..here it is...

In fact, lol!!!

Hey lookout....where is your photo? Am I just not seeing it anywhere?

lookout123 · 11-14-2007, 02:13 PM

my photo? haven't posted one in a really really long time. i am in the RFN thread though. and some from my trip to the med. probably some others.

lookout123 · 11-14-2007, 02:17 PM

here's an old one though. me and lil lookout.

hmmm, can't get it to stick. i'll try later.

Sundae · 11-14-2007, 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chocolatl

Glad to hear that pain in your leg wasn't anything serious, SG. Is the pain pretty much gone, now?

It's been improving since that one horrible night. I didn't feel it at all in the doctor's - of course - but I have it low grade right now. Nothing like what it was, easy to handle.

Spexxvet · 11-14-2007, 02:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lookout123

Let it lieth all ye sensitive cellarites, so saeth the Lookout.

Sorry, I gotsta know, I gotsta know.

shina · 11-14-2007, 02:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cicero

Holy crap...what's all this chief wench stuff? Who is "she" rattleing people's husbands?

Can I get a quote for the person who even said that?

It sounds like Tink is trying to be PC and not identify "she". I applaud her for that. Frankly, she (Tink) made it known that she knows of some indiscretions that took place between this other Cellar female and her husband. I'd be upset too.

Sundae Girl,
Glad to hear things are ok with your leg. Let us know if working out helps. That would be good news for the rest of us too if we experience anything of the sort.

monster · 11-14-2007, 03:04 PM

I'm Chief Wench.

shina · 11-14-2007, 03:12 PM

Hmmm.. well, I'm not going to make fun of someone I don't know and who obviously feels betrayed as she states. If in fact that was a poke at her, which I hope it wasn't.

There seem to be some really great people here. That is a major issue that was dangled in her face and it seems that neither her husband nor this other person cared less about what effect it might have on her. Oh well, on to other threads.

Spexxvet · 11-14-2007, 03:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster

I'm Chief Wench.

Prove it. Show us the nekid pictures.

Sundae · 11-14-2007, 03:19 PM

Well I expect there are a number of us who tried to be supportive to V who are now worried we might be in the running for Chief Wench Wannabe.

I don't remember any significant PMs to V, but I did encourage him to start the process of healing and moving on in his life because I understood from his posts that there was no way the relationship could be healed. I've seen far too many men and women hurt for longer than they had to out of a false belief that they still had a chance.

There's only two ways to react when someone is hurting - give sympathy and advice and probably end up wrong, or stand back and let them suffer alone. I'd rather realise I was wrong afterwards than risk any chance that the person suffering genuine needs help.

monster · 11-14-2007, 03:23 PM

*sigh* You must all be too young for Spartacus.....

Sundae · 11-14-2007, 03:25 PM

Nah, I got that. My response was prompted by shina.

lookout123 · 11-14-2007, 03:31 PM

ok, listen up all y'all. If you are not a member of the BigV household can i suggest you just let this topic drop? We don't live with them and even if they posted a blow by blow analysis of the last few months/years, we still wouldn't fully understand the real situation.

BigV and Tink, I am so happy that things are on the mend with you. happier than i can tell you, really, but you two need to be realistic. the wounds are too fresh to be dealing with them in an open and public environment like the cellar. Words on the screen here can be easily misunderstood or misinterpreted. and the truth is that the down and dirty details of the events are no ones' business but your own, don't be ashamed, but be careful about what you post. trust me, i know from personal experience.

Looking back at the posts in this thread - Tink can you understand that after the last few months it is only natural that if V drops a "bad day" message, people would be concerned that the road to recovery you two are on might have developed a few bumps? Don't read our concern as "What did that evil woman do???" you are a cellarite now, so you need to read it as "whoa - are you TWO ok?" it's the cellar, we tend to have sharp claws and thick skin. But at the end of the day we stand by eachother, that means you too.

The Cellar has had couples in it before but we've never had a long time member go through a split, get back together, and introduce their other half, so this dynamic is new territory for us all.

now let's all just relax... *steps off soapbox*

11-14-2007, 02:00 PM	#961
Cicero Looking forward to open mic night. Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New Mexico Posts: 5,148	Holy crap...what's all this chief wench stuff? Who is "she" rattleing people's husbands? Can I get a quote for the person who even said that? __________________ Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung

11-14-2007, 02:02 PM	#962
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	Let it lieth all ye sensitive cellarites, so saeth the Lookout. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

11-14-2007, 02:12 PM	#963
Cicero Looking forward to open mic night. Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New Mexico Posts: 5,148	No, I am actually amused...lost my smilie..here it is... In fact, lol!!! Hey lookout....where is your photo? Am I just not seeing it anywhere? __________________ Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung

11-14-2007, 02:13 PM	#964
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	my photo? haven't posted one in a really really long time. i am in the RFN thread though. and some from my trip to the med. probably some others. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

11-14-2007, 02:17 PM	#965
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	here's an old one though. me and lil lookout. hmmm, can't get it to stick. i'll try later. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

11-14-2007, 03:04 PM	#969
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	I'm Chief Wench. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

11-14-2007, 03:12 PM	#970
shina Hopeful Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Sammamish, WA Posts: 232	Hmmm.. well, I'm not going to make fun of someone I don't know and who obviously feels betrayed as she states. If in fact that was a poke at her, which I hope it wasn't. There seem to be some really great people here. That is a major issue that was dangled in her face and it seems that neither her husband nor this other person cared less about what effect it might have on her. Oh well, on to other threads.

11-14-2007, 03:19 PM	#972
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Well I expect there are a number of us who tried to be supportive to V who are now worried we might be in the running for Chief Wench Wannabe. I don't remember any significant PMs to V, but I did encourage him to start the process of healing and moving on in his life because I understood from his posts that there was no way the relationship could be healed. I've seen far too many men and women hurt for longer than they had to out of a false belief that they still had a chance. There's only two ways to react when someone is hurting - give sympathy and advice and probably end up wrong, or stand back and let them suffer alone. I'd rather realise I was wrong afterwards than risk any chance that the person suffering genuine needs help. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

11-14-2007, 03:23 PM	#973
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	sigh You must all be too young for Spartacus..... __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

11-14-2007, 03:25 PM	#974
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Nah, I got that. My response was prompted by shina. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

11-14-2007, 03:31 PM	#975
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	ok, listen up all y'all. If you are not a member of the BigV household can i suggest you just let this topic drop? We don't live with them and even if they posted a blow by blow analysis of the last few months/years, we still wouldn't fully understand the real situation. BigV and Tink, I am so happy that things are on the mend with you. happier than i can tell you, really, but you two need to be realistic. the wounds are too fresh to be dealing with them in an open and public environment like the cellar. Words on the screen here can be easily misunderstood or misinterpreted. and the truth is that the down and dirty details of the events are no ones' business but your own, don't be ashamed, but be careful about what you post. trust me, i know from personal experience. Looking back at the posts in this thread - Tink can you understand that after the last few months it is only natural that if V drops a "bad day" message, people would be concerned that the road to recovery you two are on might have developed a few bumps? Don't read our concern as "What did that evil woman do???" you are a cellarite now, so you need to read it as "whoa - are you TWO ok?" it's the cellar, we tend to have sharp claws and thick skin. But at the end of the day we stand by eachother, that means you too. The Cellar has had couples in it before but we've never had a long time member go through a split, get back together, and introduce their other half, so this dynamic is new territory for us all. now let's all just relax... steps off soapbox __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

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