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Forum: Relationships 06-21-2007, 02:57 PM
Replies: 108
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Posted By anonymousfornow
It is hard because I do still love him. I had set...

It is hard because I do still love him. I had set the stage for us to talk about anything and everything. Had he come to me with his problem we could of found a compromise, solution, outlet for that...
Forum: Relationships 06-21-2007, 02:50 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
The pain is overwhelming. the simplest tasks seem...

The pain is overwhelming. the simplest tasks seem monumental. how do you keep on keepin on? I now have 40 employees looking to me for guidance and direction and I cant do a load of laundry. i am sure...
Forum: Relationships 06-21-2007, 10:28 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
ok, i've made it to work 3 days in a row and...

ok, i've made it to work 3 days in a row and someone must be looking out for me, because everyday when the spotlight is on me to perform, something happens that allows me to fly under the radar for...
Forum: Relationships 06-18-2007, 11:55 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I agree with this too, but the burden should be...

I agree with this too, but the burden should be on him. He should have to fix this so I am in a better position to be on my own. Not going to work because I am depressed is not really helping me move...
Forum: Relationships 06-18-2007, 11:53 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I agree that in and of itself what he is doing is...

I agree that in and of itself what he is doing is not wrong. It is wrong because we have made a commitment to each other, and his actions are hurting me.
Forum: Relationships 06-18-2007, 11:14 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
Now what do I do?

Instead of getting off the plane, seeing all your belongings at your house, and doing something, ANYTHING to fight for your relationship....he orders an escort.

Our whole miserable horrifying...
Forum: Relationships 06-15-2007, 06:43 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
Thank you. I need it.

Thank you. I need it.
Forum: Relationships 06-15-2007, 06:30 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I agree. I am trying. It ain't easy. Here comes...

I agree. I am trying. It ain't easy. Here comes the moment of truth...

I was off today and delivered his belongings to his residence, and picked up mine. We have 2 big items left to exchange that...
Forum: Relationships 06-14-2007, 08:07 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I found out on Friday and he has been out of town...

I found out on Friday and he has been out of town all week working. i have not answered his calls since Tuesday(Monday I was weak) and it is quite difficult. I have tomorrow off so i plan to return...
Forum: Relationships 06-14-2007, 07:46 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I was a little disappointed because i was excited...

I was a little disappointed because i was excited about the solace I would find, but it doesn't upset me. Thank you for looking out. I am hurt and looking for answers.
Forum: Relationships 06-14-2007, 07:43 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I don't know if it is in my nature to have an...

I don't know if it is in my nature to have an open relationship as i have never tried. The idea doesnt excite me on the surface, but i did spend about 6 months with a couple in my early 20's and they...
Forum: Relationships 06-14-2007, 06:18 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
Thank you for taking the time to post this. I...

Thank you for taking the time to post this. I believe on some level that humans are not wired to be monogamous, it is a conscience decision. I also believe that controlling our urges is part of what...
Forum: Relationships 06-13-2007, 11:08 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
This doesn't feel like the TLC I came here for

This doesn't feel like the TLC I came here for
Forum: Relationships 06-13-2007, 10:50 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
Intellectually I know what I need to do, but...

Intellectually I know what I need to do, but amazingly enough, I don't want to. I think that is the sickest component of the whole situation.
Forum: Relationships 06-13-2007, 10:20 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I'm back to report

I am here to give you guys an update. reread this thread and get some tlc.

When I began this thread, I called him on the carpet. forgave him, made a commitment to myself to trust, let it go and...
Forum: Relationships 07-06-2006, 05:47 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I've made the decision to give it one more shot,...

I've made the decision to give it one more shot, flying in the face of what everyone has said to me. I know I am just an anonymous woman on a bbs, but thank goodness I have a place that I can be...
Forum: Relationships 07-06-2006, 12:29 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
Not exactly.

Not exactly.
Forum: Relationships 07-04-2006, 01:15 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
1. You have to confront him with what he's done ...

1. You have to confront him with what he's done
2. He needs to own up to what he's done, and sincerely express regret. No excuses. If he gets defensive, you've got a bad, rough road ahead of you....
Forum: Relationships 07-04-2006, 09:24 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I have no issues with porn in moderation. As a...

I have no issues with porn in moderation. As a woman, I enjoy it sometimes. I dont mind videos, or magazines laying around the house. I don't mind going to the strip club once in awhile either. I've...
Forum: Relationships 07-02-2006, 12:32 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
But here's the truth. GOOD PEOPLE DON'T DO THIS...

But here's the truth. GOOD PEOPLE DON'T DO THIS TO THE PEOPLE THEY LOVE. If there was something intrinsically wrong with the relationship, a man who loves you will probably approach you about it...
Forum: Relationships 07-02-2006, 12:14 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
Keep it up please. You are making progress. So,...

Keep it up please. You are making progress. So, as women, are we doomed? Doomed to a life of acceptance of these tendencies in men? Being alone or casual with people forever? Help me out here. I...
Forum: Relationships 07-02-2006, 11:58 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I know this.You are right. I have only one. I...

I know this.You are right. I have only one. I provide plenty with just my one. Thats why I know something is deeply wrong with the whole scenario. I am using all my might to refuse acceptance. I...
Forum: Relationships 07-02-2006, 07:51 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,039
Posted By anonymousfornow
Intent. I am trying not to be jaded, but it is...

Intent. I am trying not to be jaded, but it is difficult when every man I have ever loved has cheated. Personally the emotional aspect is more damaging to me than the physical aspect but I consider...
Forum: Relationships 07-02-2006, 07:44 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I am hurt and sad but I'm astonished over the...

I am hurt and sad but I'm astonished over the lack of anger I am able to rouse. Is there no hope? I can't understand it. Nothing is wrong. In fact, everything is going perfect. It was an accident...
Forum: Relationships 07-02-2006, 01:21 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 16,243
Posted By anonymousfornow
I was pretty sure this is going to be the major...

I was pretty sure this is going to be the major consenus. I am in shock and looking for some magic.
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