Angry at my husband

Aliantha · 10-25-2007, 07:23 PM

The night before last, I had a dream where my husband had asked me and the kids (including the extras) to meet him at his office after work so we could all go somewhere for dinner. When we got there, he wasn't there and then he called and was drunk and had forgotten about us. (something he'd never do in real life).

I woke up feeling so pissed off with him that I could barely speak. I stayed pissed off with him all day yesterday and just couldn't stop it. It was really weird. Like gremlins had entered my head and made me totally irrational or something.

Anyway, last night there was a bit of a do at his work and he was home a bit late, but not drunk and definitely not really late. We were all still up. The problem was, that because I was still feeling this crankyness, he thought I was pissed off because he was late, but i was too embarrassed to tell him it was nothing to do with that. lol

Poor bugger. I don't know how he puts up with me sometimes.

Anyway, have you ever had a dream that's affected you like that?

kerosene · 10-25-2007, 07:26 PM

Yeah, but mine are usually sexual dreams about men I don't have that sort of relationship with in real life. It usually makes me nervous around them for a few days.

Clodfobble · 10-25-2007, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by case

Yeah, but mine are usually sexual dreams about men I don't have that sort of relationship with in real life. It usually makes me nervous around them for a few days.

...or a few weeks...

BigV · 10-25-2007, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Ali

Anyway, have you ever had a dream that's affected you like that?

Yes, and I can't wake up.

lumberjim · 10-25-2007, 08:46 PM

dreams can totally make you see someone in a new light. it makes you wonder just what the hell your subconscious is trying to tell you about them. makes you second guess yourself.

for instance:

(here's a good example of a time where I was going to make fun of one specific dwellar in a really twisty and unexpected way....by telling you about a dream i had about them that made me realize something about them.....but, because of certain people's (possibly the subject of the aforementioned dream) reaction to that kind of thing, and the row that would certainly ensue.....I am refraining from said activity.) You realize, that now that I've said this much about it, i cannot post the dream (which would have been obviously made up anyway) because you would be expecting it....and it wouldn't be at all entertaining.

Now. which way is better? should I have ripped on the person, and gone for the laugh....or just ....not?

DanaC · 10-25-2007, 08:49 PM

part of me wants to say that depends on how funny it would have been and part of me wants to shout STOP! my better instincts are leaning towards the latter :P

Aliantha · 10-25-2007, 09:09 PM

Well there's a big part of me that wants to know all about it now.

Send me a PM Jimbo.

I know you want to

lumberjim · 10-25-2007, 09:10 PM

nope.....sorry...it's the new...kinder gentler lumberjim. hope you're happy, spe..... people.

Aliantha · 10-25-2007, 09:39 PM

hmmm...very interesting.

TheMercenary · 10-25-2007, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

Anyway, have you ever had a dream that's affected you like that?

Ummmm... no. I don't get pissed at my wife for make believe events.

Aliantha · 10-25-2007, 10:03 PM

but it was so real. lol

SteveDallas · 10-25-2007, 10:30 PM

I once had horribly realistic dreams about biting the dust in my clarinet lessons. (Two consecutive dreams on one night on one topic--the only time that's ever happened to me.)

Sheldonrs · 10-25-2007, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim

telling you about a dream i had about them that made me realize something about them.....

Don't be afraid LJ. Go ahead and talk about the dream you had of me where you were fucking my brains out on a pretty purple cloud. lol!!!

jinx · 10-25-2007, 11:19 PM

Bitch, don't make me scratch your eyes out

Stormieweather · 10-25-2007, 11:20 PM

My ex had a dream once that I was cheating on him. He ripped into me the next day as though I was really doing what he had dreamed. I was totally shocked. And furious that he was so mad about something that was totally in his head (and had nothing to do with reality).

10-25-2007, 07:23 PM	#1
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Angry at my husband The night before last, I had a dream where my husband had asked me and the kids (including the extras) to meet him at his office after work so we could all go somewhere for dinner. When we got there, he wasn't there and then he called and was drunk and had forgotten about us. (something he'd never do in real life). I woke up feeling so pissed off with him that I could barely speak. I stayed pissed off with him all day yesterday and just couldn't stop it. It was really weird. Like gremlins had entered my head and made me totally irrational or something. Anyway, last night there was a bit of a do at his work and he was home a bit late, but not drunk and definitely not really late. We were all still up. The problem was, that because I was still feeling this crankyness, he thought I was pissed off because he was late, but i was too embarrassed to tell him it was nothing to do with that. lol Poor bugger. I don't know how he puts up with me sometimes. Anyway, have you ever had a dream that's affected you like that? __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-25-2007, 08:46 PM	#5
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	dreams can totally make you see someone in a new light. it makes you wonder just what the hell your subconscious is trying to tell you about them. makes you second guess yourself. for instance: (here's a good example of a time where I was going to make fun of one specific dwellar in a really twisty and unexpected way....by telling you about a dream i had about them that made me realize something about them.....but, because of certain people's (possibly the subject of the aforementioned dream) reaction to that kind of thing, and the row that would certainly ensue.....I am refraining from said activity.) You realize, that now that I've said this much about it, i cannot post the dream (which would have been obviously made up anyway) because you would be expecting it....and it wouldn't be at all entertaining. Now. which way is better? should I have ripped on the person, and gone for the laugh....or just ....not? __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

10-25-2007, 09:09 PM	#7
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Well there's a big part of me that wants to know all about it now. Send me a PM Jimbo. I know you want to __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-25-2007, 09:10 PM	#8
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	nope.....sorry...it's the new...kinder gentler lumberjim. hope you're happy, spe..... people. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

10-25-2007, 09:39 PM	#9
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	hmmm...very interesting. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-25-2007, 07:26 PM	#2
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	Yeah, but mine are usually sexual dreams about men I don't have that sort of relationship with in real life. It usually makes me nervous around them for a few days.

10-25-2007, 08:49 PM	#6
DanaC We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 25,964	part of me wants to say that depends on how funny it would have been and part of me wants to shout STOP! my better instincts are leaning towards the latter :P

10-25-2007, 10:03 PM	#11
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	but it was so real. lol __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-25-2007, 10:30 PM	#12
SteveDallas Your Bartender Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Philly Burbs, PA Posts: 7,651	I once had horribly realistic dreams about biting the dust in my clarinet lessons. (Two consecutive dreams on one night on one topic--the only time that's ever happened to me.)

10-25-2007, 11:19 PM	#14
jinx Come on, cat. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: general vicinity of Philadelphia area Posts: 7,013	Bitch, don't make me scratch your eyes out __________________ Crying won't help you, praying won't do you no good.

10-25-2007, 11:20 PM	#15
Stormieweather Wearing her bitch boots Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Floriduh Posts: 1,181	My ex had a dream once that I was cheating on him. He ripped into me the next day as though I was really doing what he had dreamed. I was totally shocked. And furious that he was so mad about something that was totally in his head (and had nothing to do with reality). __________________ "First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." - Mahatma Gandhi

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