DTR - Define the Relationship

MsSparkie · 08-07-2006, 10:56 AM

Enjoy each other's company. Get to know each other as friends. No pressure. No worries. Then...at some point...agree to have a DTR...define the relationship conversation after a certain period of time has passed.

PS....in most forums threads pass by more quickly than here. Tons of new threads are started every day and yours sinks into the sunset more swiftly. Here there doesn't seem to be that amount of activity, and I see a lot of my threads hanging around. So now I feel I should back off. I don't want to rock the boat here. This is more of a sleepy little village than the big city type of forum I have grown up in. Am I being too gung-ho here?

Undertoad · 08-07-2006, 11:36 AM

I only speak for myself, but I say, your threads are most excellent and you should continue to post them.

Flint · 08-07-2006, 11:40 AM

I didn't realize you were new. So, you must be fitting in.

MsSparkie · 08-07-2006, 12:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad

I only speak for myself, but I say, your threads are most excellent and you should continue to post them.

Thanks Boss! But I don't want to be an attention whore. I'll pace myself.

Come on guys....keep up with me!!! Don't make me stick out like a sore thumb!

footfootfoot · 08-07-2006, 04:30 PM

I never heard of DTR until reading a recent savage love column. My DTR days were over a decade ago, so I'm not sure what I can offer.

Jacquelita · 08-07-2006, 08:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad

I only speak for myself, but I say, your threads are most excellent and you should continue to post them.

it was the oral sex thread - any post that demonstrates women are sexual beings will get his attention every time...

MsSparkie · 08-07-2006, 08:17 PM

Haha!!!! Well, make sure he memorizes it !!!!!!

Fortunately, I speak Bill & Ted so I figured that out!

Undertoad · 08-07-2006, 09:16 PM

I already figured 'em out before the list :P :)

MsSparkie · 08-07-2006, 09:37 PM

Then Jacquelita, he's a keeper!

OK boys....all together now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sing along:

A-B-CD---E-F-G
H-I-J-K---LMNOP
Q-R-S---T-U-V
W-X----Y&Z
Now I know my ABC's...tell me what you think of me.....

yesman065 · 08-08-2006, 01:00 PM

"This is more of a sleepy little village than the big city type of forum I have grown up in." MsSparkie.
This is more of a thoughtful "Little Village" in contrast to the meaningless banter that I've seen on so many others. Most actually think before they comment or reply. Thats why I have come to love and respect the opinions of many here. To me, the cellarites actually care.

MsSparkie · 08-08-2006, 08:43 PM

They do also in forums I participate in or I would not be there. But they are more active. Not saying that is good. It is what it is. Membership is very high and the active posters are top notch, like here. :-)

08-07-2006, 10:56 AM	#1
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	DTR - Define the Relationship Enjoy each other's company. Get to know each other as friends. No pressure. No worries. Then...at some point...agree to have a DTR...define the relationship conversation after a certain period of time has passed. PS....in most forums threads pass by more quickly than here. Tons of new threads are started every day and yours sinks into the sunset more swiftly. Here there doesn't seem to be that amount of activity, and I see a lot of my threads hanging around. So now I feel I should back off. I don't want to rock the boat here. This is more of a sleepy little village than the big city type of forum I have grown up in. Am I being too gung-ho here? __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-07-2006, 11:40 AM	#3
Flint Snowflake Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Dystopia Posts: 13,136	I didn't realize you were new. So, you must be fitting in. __________________ **************** There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio**

08-07-2006, 04:30 PM	#5
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	I never heard of DTR until reading a recent savage love column. My DTR days were over a decade ago, so I'm not sure what I can offer. __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

08-07-2006, 08:17 PM	#7
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	Haha!!!! Well, make sure he memorizes it !!!!!! Fortunately, I speak Bill & Ted so I figured that out! __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-07-2006, 09:37 PM	#9
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	Then Jacquelita, he's a keeper! OK boys....all together now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sing along: A-B-CD---E-F-G H-I-J-K---LMNOP Q-R-S---T-U-V W-X----Y&Z Now I know my ABC's...tell me what you think of me..... __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-07-2006, 11:36 AM	#2
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	I only speak for myself, but I say, your threads are most excellent and you should continue to post them.

08-07-2006, 09:16 PM	#8
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	I already figured 'em out before the list :P :)

08-08-2006, 01:00 PM	#10
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	"This is more of a sleepy little village than the big city type of forum I have grown up in." MsSparkie. This is more of a thoughtful "Little Village" in contrast to the meaningless banter that I've seen on so many others. Most actually think before they comment or reply. Thats why I have come to love and respect the opinions of many here. To me, the cellarites actually care.

08-08-2006, 08:43 PM	#11
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	They do also in forums I participate in or I would not be there. But they are more active. Not saying that is good. It is what it is. Membership is very high and the active posters are top notch, like here. :-) __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

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