14 Tips For guys

MsSparkie · 08-05-2006, 08:05 AM

14 Tips For Great Oral Sex

1- Start slow
Kiss your way down her body and tease her thighs and buttocks for a while before you make contact with any part of her genitalia. This will turn her on before you start the real action. Get close so that she thinks you're going to zero in on her at any second, but don't give in immediately.

2- Warm her up
Before you remove her underwear, breathe hot air through it against her genital area. Breathe softly but warmly, for short bursts at a time. You can alternate between doing this and kissing her thighs and stomach.

3- Don't dive in
When you begin to kiss and lick her vulva, work your way in slowly from the outside. Start by licking the outer edges of the outer lips (labia), then very slowly spread them, and lick and kiss the inner lips, and around the vagina. Do this gently, as though you were still teasing her. You'll work your way up to more intense action eventually.

4- Wait for the clitoris
Try to hold off from coming in contact with her clitoris for as long as you can, even as you kiss her labia and vagina. When you do begin to lick it, do it softly, and focus on the clitoral hood (just above the clitoris), since most women prefer indirect clitoral contact before they're fully aroused.

5- Lick the alphabet
If you're not sure which strokes are best to approach the clitoris, try Sam Kinison's famous suggestion and lick the shape of every letter in the alphabet as a means of offering a wide variety of approaches. Make them wide from time to time to cover the whole genital area, and make them small at other times, centering on the clitoris itself.

6- Suck it up
As she becomes more aroused, you can gently suck her clitoris into your mouth and flick your tongue over it. This combines suction with a much faster rhythm. Women like that.

7- Listen for her reaction
Listen carefully both to what she says and the sounds she makes. If she sounds excited, keep doing what you're doing for as long as you can. When she seems to respond less, it's time to try a new stroke.

8- Hum
You've heard of fellatio being called a "hummer," but it works just as well if you close your mouth and hum against her clitoris every once in a while too.

9- Grab hold
Hold on to her thighs or her backside so you can rub yourself against her well. From there you can also reach up and caress her breasts, or, if she likes, place your hands near her mouth so she can suck on your fingers.

10- Get your whole face into it
Someone once said that if your eyelids aren't sticky after giving a woman oral sex, you didn't do all you could to please her. Use your nose, cheeks and chin (clean shaven; no one wants sandpaper down there), and move them around. Even if you're just using your mouth, shaking your face from side to side and up and down will enhance friction in a great way.

11- Use your fingers
Penetrating your woman with one finger and making a "come here" motion is a great way to locate her G-spot, which will raise the ante of her orgasm. Even if you don't know where her G-spot is (it's good to have some experience with it beforehand), just penetrating her as you lick her should be effective. You can also alternate between penetrating her with your penis and pleasuring her orally.

12- Maintain eye contact
You may lose track of what you're doing in the excitement of it all, but it's good to make eye contact with your lover, and give her a smile and a look that says, "There's nowhere else I'd rather be."

13- Know when to continue
When your woman gets close to orgasm, make sure you do everything she wants you to. No matter if you have a kink in your neck or your arm's falling asleep, keep doing exactly what you're doing until you're sure she's had her orgasm.

14- Know when to stop
The clitoris is extremely sensitive after climax, so when her orgasm is over, you don't want to keep licking it as intensely as you were before she reached orgasm. As she climaxes, continue licking, but gently taper off as her reaction begins to mellow.

PS....#5 is the best tip!!!!! Hope you get a chance for lots of practice!!!

Trilby · 08-05-2006, 09:20 AM

I consider that post a Public Service Announcement!

Thanks, MsSparkie!

MsSparkie · 08-05-2006, 09:23 AM

LOL I'm sure they will find one for us on how to properly service them.

Ibby · 08-05-2006, 09:32 AM

Hm, I'll keep these in mind next time im within seven thousand miles of her... Though I have a realistic idea of how likely she is to let me in her pants anytime soon.

MsSparkie · 08-05-2006, 10:14 AM

Guys....would you spend $49.95 on a book like this for the lady in your life?

How To Guide

Or do you think she is doing ok?

MsSparkie · 08-05-2006, 10:15 AM

Ibram...where does she live?

MaggieL · 08-05-2006, 11:48 AM

Tips not just "for guys", of course...alrhough girls are less likely to need tips.

Ibby · 08-05-2006, 04:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsSparkie

Ibram...where does she live?

I started a thread whining about this in the Cities and Travel forum, hunt it down if you like.

capnhowdy · 08-05-2006, 05:42 PM

Tip # 15

When weak in the hips.... be strong in the lips.

MsSparkie · 08-05-2006, 06:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ibram

I started a thread whining about this in the Cities and Travel forum, hunt it down if you like.

Oh bother.....as Winnie the Pooh would say, or was it Eeyore? It definitely wasn't Tigger or the pig (who ever remembers the pig's name?). Holy Christopher Robin!!!!

Trilby · 08-05-2006, 06:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsSparkie

...the pig (who ever remembers the pig's name?). Holy Christopher Robin!!!!

Piglet, of course!

MsSparkie · 08-05-2006, 06:59 PM

Doh! haha!

DucksNuts · 08-06-2006, 07:20 PM

Do you think guys will be offended if I carry a copy of that around in my purse and whip it out when appropriate??

Ibby · 08-06-2006, 07:25 PM

Get it tatooed across your stomach and groin!

capnhowdy · 08-06-2006, 07:38 PM

Aren't you supposed to have your eyes closed?

08-05-2006, 08:05 AM	#1
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	14 Tips For guys 14 Tips For Great Oral Sex 1- Start slow Kiss your way down her body and tease her thighs and buttocks for a while before you make contact with any part of her genitalia. This will turn her on before you start the real action. Get close so that she thinks you're going to zero in on her at any second, but don't give in immediately. 2- Warm her up Before you remove her underwear, breathe hot air through it against her genital area. Breathe softly but warmly, for short bursts at a time. You can alternate between doing this and kissing her thighs and stomach. 3- Don't dive in When you begin to kiss and lick her vulva, work your way in slowly from the outside. Start by licking the outer edges of the outer lips (labia), then very slowly spread them, and lick and kiss the inner lips, and around the vagina. Do this gently, as though you were still teasing her. You'll work your way up to more intense action eventually. 4- Wait for the clitoris Try to hold off from coming in contact with her clitoris for as long as you can, even as you kiss her labia and vagina. When you do begin to lick it, do it softly, and focus on the clitoral hood (just above the clitoris), since most women prefer indirect clitoral contact before they're fully aroused. 5- Lick the alphabet If you're not sure which strokes are best to approach the clitoris, try Sam Kinison's famous suggestion and lick the shape of every letter in the alphabet as a means of offering a wide variety of approaches. Make them wide from time to time to cover the whole genital area, and make them small at other times, centering on the clitoris itself. 6- Suck it up As she becomes more aroused, you can gently suck her clitoris into your mouth and flick your tongue over it. This combines suction with a much faster rhythm. Women like that. 7- Listen for her reaction Listen carefully both to what she says and the sounds she makes. If she sounds excited, keep doing what you're doing for as long as you can. When she seems to respond less, it's time to try a new stroke. 8- Hum You've heard of fellatio being called a "hummer," but it works just as well if you close your mouth and hum against her clitoris every once in a while too. 9- Grab hold Hold on to her thighs or her backside so you can rub yourself against her well. From there you can also reach up and caress her breasts, or, if she likes, place your hands near her mouth so she can suck on your fingers. 10- Get your whole face into it Someone once said that if your eyelids aren't sticky after giving a woman oral sex, you didn't do all you could to please her. Use your nose, cheeks and chin (clean shaven; no one wants sandpaper down there), and move them around. Even if you're just using your mouth, shaking your face from side to side and up and down will enhance friction in a great way. 11- Use your fingers Penetrating your woman with one finger and making a "come here" motion is a great way to locate her G-spot, which will raise the ante of her orgasm. Even if you don't know where her G-spot is (it's good to have some experience with it beforehand), just penetrating her as you lick her should be effective. You can also alternate between penetrating her with your penis and pleasuring her orally. 12- Maintain eye contact You may lose track of what you're doing in the excitement of it all, but it's good to make eye contact with your lover, and give her a smile and a look that says, "There's nowhere else I'd rather be." 13- Know when to continue When your woman gets close to orgasm, make sure you do everything she wants you to. No matter if you have a kink in your neck or your arm's falling asleep, keep doing exactly what you're doing until you're sure she's had her orgasm. 14- Know when to stop The clitoris is extremely sensitive after climax, so when her orgasm is over, you don't want to keep licking it as intensely as you were before she reached orgasm. As she climaxes, continue licking, but gently taper off as her reaction begins to mellow. PS....#5 is the best tip!!!!! Hope you get a chance for lots of practice!!! __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-05-2006, 09:20 AM	#2
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	I consider that post a Public Service Announcement! Thanks, MsSparkie! __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

08-05-2006, 09:23 AM	#3
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	LOL I'm sure they will find one for us on how to properly service them. __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-05-2006, 09:32 AM	#4
Ibby erika Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: "the high up north" Posts: 6,127	Hm, I'll keep these in mind next time im within seven thousand miles of her... Though I have a realistic idea of how likely she is to let me in her pants anytime soon. __________________ not really back, you didn't see me, i was never here shhhhhh

08-05-2006, 10:15 AM	#6
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	Ibram...where does she live? __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-05-2006, 10:14 AM	#5
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	Guys....would you spend $49.95 on a book like this for the lady in your life? How To Guide Or do you think she is doing ok? __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-05-2006, 11:48 AM	#7
MaggieL in the Hour of Scampering Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Jeffersonville PA (15 mi NW of Philadelphia) Posts: 4,060	Tips not just "for guys", of course...alrhough girls are less likely to need tips. __________________ "Neither can his Mind be thought to be in Tune,whose words do jarre; nor his reason In frame, whose sentence is preposterous..."

08-05-2006, 05:42 PM	#9
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	Tip # 15 When weak in the hips.... be strong in the lips. __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

08-05-2006, 06:59 PM	#12
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	Doh! haha! __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-06-2006, 07:20 PM	#13
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Do you think guys will be offended if I carry a copy of that around in my purse and whip it out when appropriate??

08-06-2006, 07:25 PM	#14
Ibby erika Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: "the high up north" Posts: 6,127	Get it tatooed across your stomach and groin! __________________ not really back, you didn't see me, i was never here shhhhhh

08-06-2006, 07:38 PM	#15
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	Aren't you supposed to have your eyes closed? __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

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