This is ****ing depressing

[richlevy]

From here

A wintry measure of hard times can be found this holiday season on the knee of white-bearded, red-suited men around the country. A couple of years ago, children were shooting for the moon, asking St. Nick for Xboxes, iPods and laptops. But with the economy still fragile, many children are requesting basics such as shoes, library cards and even eyeglasses, say dozens of Santas who work at malls or on the party circuit.

Mike Smith, who works as Santa at the Polaris Fashion Place in Columbus, Ohio, says a 5-year-old girl wearing a Dora the Explorer sweat shirt last month hopped in his lap and asked, "Can you turn my daddy into an elf?" "Why?" he asked. "Because my daddy's out of work, and we're about to lose our house," she said.
The girl's mother, standing by her little brother's stroller, burst into tears. A stunned Mr. Smith asked the girl if her father was good with a hammer, and the girl said yes. "I didn't know what to say after that, so we just took the picture," he says with regret.

Well...........s**t.

[lumberjim]

i like the first quote.

the second one, not so much

[Sundae]

Why did he ask if Dad was good with a hammer?
Was he trying to ascertain whether Daddy was likely to go mad and launch a hammer attack of his wife and kids now that he could no longer afford to provide for them?

The fact that he wasn't able to help and felt bad makes it ring true a little more I suppose. Still, Mum shouldn't be taking the kids to see Santa in November if things are that bad.

[monster]

Originally Posted by Sundae Girl

Still, Mum shouldn't be taking the kids to see Santa in November if things are that bad.

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally Posted by Sundae Girl

...Still, Mum shouldn't be taking the kids to see Santa in November if things are that bad.

What? Nooooo, take 'em to see Santa, take 'em to see the lights and nativity scenes, and free public ceremonies. Have 'em write notes on cards to friends and relatives, decorate the house with strung popcorn, make construction paper chains, and a wreath from a coat hanger and greens. A couple of inexpensive gifts will suffice.
Years down the road, they'll remember all the things they did, and you did together, when they can't remember any gifts from any year. Christmas should be about family, not loot.

[Sundae]

Originally Posted by Juniper

Heck no SG. Santas are everywhere - park events, shopping centers, festivals, etc.

See this is where things get lost in translation
It's anything from £5 ($9) upwards to go into Santa's grotto here. Hamleys (famous toyshop) offer packages from £10-£45!

Originally Posted by Juniper

The hardest thing is explaining to your little kid why there are so many of them or why he's everywhere at the same time.

We went to see Father Christmas ONCE when I was a child, and that was paid for as a present by a friend of my Mum's. Mum told us that Father Christmas was so busy this time of year that he sent out helpers to meet children on his behalf. Which also explained why a benevolent gift-giving magic creature was appearing somewhere we couldn't afford to get into.

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

What? Nooooo, take 'em to see Santa, take 'em to see the lights and nativity scenes, and free public ceremonies. Have 'em write notes on cards to friends and relatives, decorate the house with strung popcorn, make construction paper chains, and a wreath from a coat hanger and greens. A couple of inexpensive gifts will suffice.
Years down the road, they'll remember all the things they did, and you did together, when they can't remember any gifts from any year. Christmas should be about family, not loot.

And this is what I remember of Christmas. Our experience with Father Christmas (who we knew wasn't the real one, as above) was the Rotary Club float that came round every year. The times and dates were in the local paper (something I only discovered a few years ago!) and we would listen out for him. It was a man dressed as Father Christmas, on a lorry, with lots of burly men dressed up running alongside with collection buckets. It was such a big thrill to hear the music coming and run out to the main road with a couple of pence to put in the buckets, and have him wave at us.

I only remember about three specific Christmas presents growing up. Two were stocking fillers, but they feature in a story told and retold here, and the other was a game we ended up having marathon sessions on; a friend got it the next Christmas so we could do the same at her house.

What I remember most is the familiar decorations on the tree - which ones would be broken this year? - Dad's handpainted nativity scene, the year we had snow (1982), family traditions, walking to Mass in the silent morning. And running out into the dark with coats on over our nightdresses to see the Rotary Club pass by like a carnival, raising money for poor children. We had no idea we were relatively poor too, and probably wouldn't have cared if we knew.

As an aside, Mum confessed to us years later that she sometimes spent some of the money sent to us by the London Aunts and Uncles on food and drink for Christmas. If things were tight and perhaps Dad hadn't got the overtime he hoped for. "Good!" I said. Christmas should never be about the presents. (Well, probably not about the food & drink either!) It was a special time for all of us, and despite a few bumpy teenage years, oh and just after my divorce, it has settled back into that again.

[Pie]

I think he was asking if he would be good as an elf, you know, making toys?

[Trilby]

/sarcasm/

I'm just glad all those Wall Street pukes are safe and rich, ya know? Poor people - who needs them! Prolly their own damn fault they lost the house. Teach those kids a lesson.

/sarcasm/

[Spexxvet]

Originally Posted by Brianna

/sarcasm/

I'm just glad all those Wall Street pukes are safe and rich, ya know? Poor people - who needs them! Prolly their own damn fault they lost the house. Teach those kids a lesson.

/sarcasm/

Danny Noonan: I planned to go to law school after I graduated, but it looks like my folks won't have enough money to put me through college.
Judge Smails: Well, the world needs ditch diggers, too.
Lacey Underall: [to Danny] Nice try.

[Trilby]

Originally Posted by Spexxvet

Danny Noonan: I planned to go to law school after I graduated, but it looks like my folks won't have enough money to put me through college.
Judge Smails: Well, the world needs ditch diggers, too.
Lacey Underall: [to Danny] Nice try.

I've no idea who Danny Noonan, Judge Smails OR Lacey Underall is.

OH! Caddyshack! such a dude movie!!!!!

[lookout123]

Yeah, that's the important point SG. Damn moms trying to give their kid as normal a Christmas experience as they can.

[skysidhe]

great stuff bruce

I was thinking just yesterday as I was driving to my moms and passing my son's old second grade school that I wish they could always be second graders. lol well not really but it's a great time for them and usually they are just too much fun at that age.

[Sundae]

Okay, fair enough.
Here you have to pay to see Santa.
I can only assume from the negative responses to my post that it's not the case over there.

[xoxoxoBruce]

Here you can see him for free, you just have to pay him not to fondle you.

[ZenGum]

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

What? Nooooo, take 'em to see Santa, take 'em to see the lights and nativity scenes, and free public ceremonies. Have 'em write notes on cards to friends and relatives, decorate the house with strung popcorn, make construction paper chains, and a wreath from a coat hanger and greens. A couple of inexpensive gifts will suffice.
Years down the road, they'll remember all the things they did, and you did together, when they can't remember any gifts from any year. Christmas should be about family, not loot.

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

Here you can see him for free, you just have to pay him not to fondle you.

So very right, and so very wrong, all from one guy.