Dweller NSFW 2011

[Ibby]

Even so, who are you to judge shel or anyone else for his sexual preferences?
We all have our own concept of "acceptable" age ranges/differences. Some people, for example, are disgusted by people like Donald Trump with their wives whose ages are fractions of their own. Others see no problem as long as theyre all consenting adults. But when it comes right down to it, even if were you gay or i a woman you would consider me too young for you, that doesnt mean it's fair to apply that standard to others, and to shame them for their sexual attitudes.
When it comes to minors, it's a very different matter. I've known 20-odd-year-olds who were in physical relationships with 16 or 17 year olds, and found it creepy - and likewise have known people of the same ages with perfectly healthy and safe relationships. There's obviously a point of youth and a point of age difference where things are pretty unambiguously not okay - pedophilia and the like - but once someone is a legal adult, i think it's pretty low to shame someone for showing or acknowledging attraction towards them.
Think about it this way. Most of the non-dwellar females that have been posted here as being "hot" or used as examples of sexual desirability (not that i'm posting examples, refute me if you honestly think that i'm wrong), and for that matter most females used as examples of sexual desirability in the media at large (in an overt manner at least) are between the ages of 18-25. I am also in that age range. Is it that different because i MET the Cellar when I was younger? its not like youve watched me grow up from a small child until now, just from my mid-to-late-teens.

I just think it's wrong to try to shame or denigrate someone for showing or acknowledging sexual attraction to a consenting adult, i guess. If the desire is unwanted or makes the desired uncomfortable, it's valid at any age to say that it's not cool. But an adult that lets his or her self be viewed sexually in a public forum should never be a cause for shame towards anyone who enjoys it.